Family First: How Kalani Sitake’s Wife Timberly Anchors BYU’s Head Coach Through the Highs and Lows
Behind every great coach is an even greater support system—and for BYU football head coach Kalani Sitake, that anchor is his wife, Timberly Sitake. As the emotional backbone of the Sitake family, Timberly has played an essential role in her husband’s journey from college football player to one of the most respected head coaches in the country.
The Sitakes met during Kalani’s college years at BYU, and their bond was built on mutual respect, faith, and a shared vision for the future. While Kalani pursued his dream on the field, Timberly focused on building a home that kept him grounded. Over the years, she’s become known not only as a devoted partner and mother, but also as a quiet force within the BYU football community.
Those close to the program say Timberly is often the first to welcome new players and their families, providing a sense of belonging and warmth that reflects the Sitakes’ core values. She’s been through it all—long recruiting trips, heartbreaking losses, and triumphant wins—and always with grace and strength.
“She is the heart of our family,” Kalani often says. “None of this works without her.”
Together, the Sitakes have built a family that reflects their values of service, love, and resilience. As a mother of three and a leader in her own right within the Provo community, Timberly has taken on a role that goes far beyond football.
In a profession known for pressure and unpredictability, Timberly Sitake remains Kalani’s constant—his safe harbor, his strongest supporter, and the woman who makes home truly feel like home. Her impact on BYU football may not show up on stat sheets, but her influence is deeply felt throughout the program.
