Kevin Durant has never been one to follow the crowd—on or off the court. As the NBA superstar nears 40, with an estimated net worth of $200 million, many would expect him to settle into a more conventional lifestyle: a wife, kids, a lavish home filled with family noise. Instead, Durant remains unmarried, child-free, and unapologetically solo—by choice.
Recently, Durant sparked a wave of conversation with a candid and somewhat controversial interview. He stripped away the filters and let the world in on how he really feels about modern dating. “This dating thing sucks,” he said bluntly. “Dating causes addiction, not freedom. I like to feel free, without constant emotional attachment. And when it comes to intimacy, I’d rather pay for the experience. No strings attached.”
It’s a statement that has raised eyebrows and fueled debates online, especially in a culture where relationships are often placed on a pedestal. Yet for Durant, romantic entanglements seem to be more of a trap than a treasure. He likens relationships to a form of restriction—demanding, emotionally draining, and potentially financially risky. “If things go wrong, a man can end up losing a large part of his wealth,” he added, “something his partner didn’t help him earn.”
To some, Durant’s views may seem cold or transactional. To others, they represent a raw honesty about the modern dating landscape—particularly for high-net-worth individuals. From prenuptial battles to public breakups, athletes and celebrities often face unique challenges when it comes to romance. Durant is choosing to opt out entirely.
Instead of chasing companionship, the 13-time All-Star appears to be focused on maintaining his peace of mind. “I’d rather stay single and protect my peace,” he said, a statement that resonated with many fans who admired his self-awareness and prioritization of mental clarity. With no wife, no children, and seemingly little concern for maintaining a polished public image—Durant keeps his circle tight. Just his mom and basketball.
He doesn’t pretend to be what he’s not. He doesn’t chase trends or try to fit into the mold of a media-friendly superstar. There’s no visible skincare routine, no flashy dating headlines, and, as fans like to joke, still no hairbrush. In an age of performative luxury and influencer-style romance, Durant’s simplicity is both jarring and refreshing.
His statements may not sit well with everyone, especially those who view partnership as essential to happiness. But Durant isn’t asking for approval. He’s simply living on his own terms. He’s built a legacy on the court that few can rival, and now he’s carving out a lifestyle that suits his values—quiet, focused, independent.
In a world that often celebrates chaos disguised as passion, Durant is choosing peace. And that might be his boldest move yet.
